Patriarchy is a social system where men hold primary power and predominate in roles of leadership, moral authority, social privilege, and control of property. It is a system that has been criticized for its potential to create inequality and limit opportunities for women and others. If rejection confronted to patriarchy or male ego, it always turned them to animal mindset in our society, all acid attacks, rape cases are it’s example.

Let me discuss a story of a girl, there is no controversy at all in her life, smooth life is going on, suddenly a time came, a lot of marriage proposals came from family or family frnds in her life for that girl, that’s was gracefully rejected, without any harsh comment to any proposal. One day, she just came back from university, an indirect proposal thing happened, like relatives r involved & convincing both families, all things r happening in a very cool & fun environment, but their is actually moral difference in ethics, secondly main difference is Boys family wants workoholic lady, they dont want to fed daughter in law type of mentality. they have such illetrate mentality that girl should know that she must b jobian with having mentality that “jobians r Mulazim” & Girls side wants well settled person to that extent he is able to take responsibilities of new family. And that boy is not at all handsome, very average looking guy, educated, but jobless. And that guy can’t even speak in front of his father, mother or sister. And have no own opinion. Their is just 4, 5 family gathering. It’s a very very short time period, both families analyze their mindset r not matched they can’t adjust. It’s very normal thing to happened. Both sides r living completely normal after that scenario. Bcz there is not even family commitment for once, nothing verbal happened

But the people or families who got rejected earlier, create drama by exaggerating that thing just to defame that girls, or snub her confidence regarding her personality bcz they have grudge in their hearts of being rejected. They spread rumors by selfmade stories, with grudge to defame that girl. Or secondly they want attention on the name of that girl, otherwise no one can gave them attention to their cheap personalities. Or they just amuze the situation by creating drama in life of that girl, bcz they hold grudge, and rejection leads them towards animal behavior.

During that time, there is comment on that girl, her skin shade is not fair, the comment given by 80% people, having the same skin shade as her.. remaining 20% who claims to have fair skin have buffalo figure, dwarf height, below average facial features, Face full of acne. Some of them r infertile couples. Some r disabled by being blind with one eye, others with leg disability, others with bengi eyes (squint eyes), others with diff in eye size, others with by birth disease of poliosis. One of them is not able to speak clearly yet now bcz of cleft palate by birth. One of them is deaf from one ear, one is autistic, one is mentally abnormal. Some of them r not educated.

When the reality check is given to that girl, she gave reality check back in same way… By pointing their flaws

No one gave reality check to her before, so no one take reality check from her before in life.

Grudges increased by listening truth.
Then someone pointed during that period that her father is govt employee (20th grade). But the person who pointed that shit mainly in family that is 11 scale school clerk, others r also govt employee, some of them r orphan & jobless. people who claims belongs to business, have small scale 1 room business, like we called them shopkeeper.
All relatives r not living somewhere else, all live in her neighborhood. All our relatives including her family have land properties, but they not prefer to move any other place, they want to live in their forefathers town.

So these rejected people start defaming that girl by their own selfmade stories just because of grudge of being rejected, secondly they can’t control that girl & her parents for taking further decision for her daughter, so the lesson from that story is people who r actually trying to defame that girl is not in gud position in life, they r middle class, but defame can only possible to someone who have fame or value. Such animal mindset to defame that girl based on rejected patriarchy.

The society works for mindset associated with rejecting patriarchy, it involves a desire for greater gender equality, a challenge to traditional power structures, and a belief in the inherent worth and capabilities of all individuals, regardless of gender.

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