Humanizing children is a great responsibility as their future life is linked with their childhood training and character. Some people don’t take the issue serious when their children are young due to which they have to regret and suffer as these children grow up.
Another issue which needed to be looked into is that we either completely ignore the better of humanizing of our children or become too rigid in this connection. Some common carelessness, negligence and excessiveness in the regard are:
(a). Staying silent when your son or daughter speaks loudly to you or an adult teaches them bad language and impudence.
(b). Ignoring your son or daughter’s words or looks that make fun of you or someone else teaches them hardness of heart, rudeness, and mistreatment.
(c). Letting your child be isolated from you and getting lost in the real or virtual world makes them an insensitive person, about whom you only know that they are alive.
(d). Allowing them to skip obligatory acts of worship deafens the heart and soul and leaves them with no safe haven or meaning in life.
(f). Allowing your son to run away from some responsibilities gradually destroys his true masculinity.
(g). Allowing your daughter to cross the boundaries in terms of words, actions, and dress makes her a victim of contempt instead of respect.
(h). Excessive teasing and association with the wrong people attract such sick minds and evil people.
(i). Allowing mistakes to be repeated again and again makes them habitual and trivial, because whoever is not afraid of punishment becomes rude.
(j). Overindulging your son or daughter creates ingratitude, indifference, hardness of heart, and lack of passion in them.
(k). Causes them to break down, deprive, and lose confidence in themselves and others. This behavior can lead to extremist thoughts and sometimes even suicidal thoughts.
Do remember that abusing children by parents or others is not a modern or advanced training, but rather a curse, a sign of psychological poverty, and intellectual ignorance.
Negligence… Allowing the inability to distinguish between what is lawful and what is unlawful leads to loss of identity, desecration of the pillars of religion, and enjoyment of sins.
Teach your children manners, purity, and respect, in words, actions, heart, dress, and behavior.
Lest they close the gap and start mocking you, or coldness and indifference prevail in relationships, even losing their support and love in old age.
Neither pamper your child so much that he becomes spoiled.
Nor make him so strict that he becomes hateful and distant.
Be strict, friendly, compassionate, and a guide at the same time.
Be the head and leader of your home in all situations.
